Let’s get started with online dating to take your life to the next level. You might feel as if you’re in a jungle. We’re going to show you how to navigate the jungle and meet that person. These tips are great for anyone who is new or looking to improve their game.
Your profile photo is the first thing you should do. Imagine it as your virtual handshake. Why settle for blurry photos? You would never want to have a limp handshake in the real world. Grab a camera or phone from a friend and take some pictures where you appear genuine and approachable. You should avoid bathroom mirror photos, as they say “I did not try.”
Here is your biography. Here’s where you have the chance to shine or crash and burn. It should be light-hearted and informative, but also fun. What is a good guideline? You can mention your interests and hobbies. Maybe even throw in a few interesting facts about you. Please, in the name of God, avoid cliches such as “I enjoy long walks at the beach.”
We’ll talk about the proper way to send a message. This is often where men make mistakes. Avoid generic openings such as “Hello” or “What’s up? “, when sending your first message. These are conversation-killers. Refer to something in her profile, like if she’s a hiker or has an adorable dog on one of her photos. You should show that you have paid attention.
When messaging, timing is important. Don’t reply within seconds if she replies after hours. It can seem desperate. Don’t try to manipulate her. Matching the pace of your partner is important, but you shouldn’t be playing games.
Many men make the mistake of trying to impress their date on the very first time. It’s good to impress, but authenticity always wins out over bravado. Instead of boasting, share stories about yourself.
For the first date, choose something low-pressure and interactive. The coffee shop is a classic because it’s a casual, easygoing place where you can hear your date without having to shout over the music and clinking of glasses.
What’s another golden nugget to add? It’s okay to be vulnerable every now and again. This makes you more relatable. You can share an embarrassing story or acknowledge that you are nervous. Honesty builds relationships faster than pretending to be James Bond.
It’s okay if not every match is a success! It’s okay if the chemistry isn’t right despite both parties’ best efforts.
Last but not least, if you’re persistent without being annoying and she doesn’t respond after several attempts it might be best to move on gracefully instead of risking coming off as creepy or clingy.
That’s about it, gents! It’s not rocket science to date online, but following these guidelines can make the difference between finding love and being left out. Enjoy your swipes and may Cupid find his mark in no time!